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How Do Your Kids Regulate?
My child regulates with either outdoor energetic activities, or with loud videos whilst lying on top of me. The lying on me can be quite a nice connected time… BUT also can be hard for me as...
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Setting Boundaries
Setting boundaries is so important. It’s all we have in the fight against gaslighting. (Gaslighting basically means people trying to make you believe things that are not true.. ) When someone...
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What does it look like to win?
So, I have had lots of thinking time recently (haven’t we all!!!). This is going to be a long post about my life and what winning looked like for me. . My journey starts with some sad...
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Courageous Advocacy
I’ve been looking for a phrase to counterbalance gaslighting of parents for a long time. A phrase I could have used when I was in court myself against my perpetrator and questioned every day...
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We are All Scared
We are all scared... My beautiful children are by my side through the highs and lows. We thrive together, laugh together and cry together. We have a bond which only our experiences can create. We...
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Name your Difficulty.
This morning I had a shower and thought about what I have to endure. This morning I had to navigate the father of my youngest children who attacked me, let’s call him EX 2 drop off my kids...
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Gaslighting
All of this. All the time!! Safe boundaries are the only solution to Gaslighting. The only issues is, I’ve heard a number of parents this week who, when using safe boundaries with...
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Just Breathe
I needed this 2.5yrs ago. I looked at my situation and felt absolutely desolate.. I would sit alone and cry all the time. I was medicated and could not see the path ahead as anything but, more of...
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Believe
This photo popped up on my feed and it felt like fate as it says all I need this week. I’m in court on Wednesday, I’m feeling uncomfortable with decisions that are being made, and so...
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